To hate and love

People said "it's a thin line between love and hate", but how do you actually distinguish it? When hate reside do you actually want to talk to the person? Or you talk but you mainly talk trash about them? And when you love someone, do you talk all the time about your feelings to them just to justify that what you're feeling are love? See how confusing it is between love and hate.

What about feelings that changes then? When your lover left you, dump you or cheated on you do you turn your love to hate instantly? What if said lover beg for your forgiveness? Do you think you can erase or ease that hate and turn it back to love?

Life is already complicated as it is, but I still wonder about the people who entangled themselves with so much love and hate. There are so many questions about those two adjectives without any concrete answers. Even as I think this through, I still can't get any conclusion about it, I feel that you can't love without any hate, and you can't hate without any love. So, I guess what you can do is have a balance of Love and Hate, and make the best of life.